Reasons you prefer to be alone than with friends or people

If you like being alone most of the time all by yourself than with your friends or some random people then it is a sign that you are an introvert or a loner. It is normal to want to spend a lot of time alone as long as it makes you happy.

If you like being alone and do not want to talk to anyone or want to be alone in a dark place then it is not a good sign. You’re maybe suffering from depression and anxiety, and it’s best you seek professional help.

There are common reasons why you love to spend your time alone rather than with friends or around other people, and they include:

First, it could be you enjoy the peace and quietness that comes with being alone because you enjoy your own company rather than the company of others.
You can think more clearly and get more done when you are by yourself.
Additionally, it could be that you’re more productive when you’re working alone possibly on projects.
And finally, you feel like you can be more yourself when you’re alone – you can relax and be less self-conscious.

It does not mean you do not love to socialize with people, but it is because being alone helps you to connect better with people. Unlike extroverts that socialize and connect with people and do not need to have alone time to do that.

It is also important to understand that there is a difference between spending time ‘alone’ and being ‘lonely’. While the former offers several benefits which we will be focusing on in this article, the latter is very necessary to avoid because it can lead to a state of depression.

Solitude is the character trait of introverts or loners, but they do not feel lonely.

In this article, we will discuss things to look out for that shows you love being alone and the positives of being alone.

Difference between a loner and an introvert

The difference between a loner and an introvert is that a loner prefers to be alone and avoids social interaction, while an introvert may enjoy social interaction but prefers to spend time alone.

Being alone and staying normal

Everyone experiences different levels of introversion and extroversion. Some people naturally prefer to spend more time alone than others, and there is nothing wrong with that. If you find yourself wanting to be alone in your room more often than you used to, it could be a sign that you need some time to recharge and rejuvenate. Being alone gives a great sense of serenity and tranquillity. As long as you are happy and healthy, there is nothing wrong with wanting to be alone occasionally.

10 Signs you like being alone

Being alone is better than being with the wrong person or company. For instance, it can just be you and your pets, a huge pile of books, doing various arts and crafts, and then some good music.

The following are 10 signs that show you prefer solitude and take comfort in being by yourself, and they are:

You’re an introvert or a loner
You can’t stand being around people or a crowd all the time
You feel quite content with your life
You prefer peace, quietness, relaxation, and drama free life
You are not anti-social, but you simply don’t like being pressured to be sociable or interact with people
You do your work best without a team
You feel more at ease in your own company.
You love self-discovery
You hate distraction and like to focus
You are not co-dependent

For most people, these signs above have unintentionally made them mysterious to others and have sparked their curiosity. People tend to gravitate towards them out of sheer curiosity. As they generally don’t speak unless spoken to and unless their convictions are challenged.

Final thoughts

Being a loner doesn’t mean loneliness. You just don’t need or rely on others to make it through life.

Spending time alone can help you clear your mind, relax and reflect on what is important to you. People who like to be alone always have healthy boundaries. And even though they like to be alone, they are open-minded. At the same time, they’re more than aware of what their strengths and weaknesses are. And also tend to look at the bright side, no matter what life throws in their way. In all make sure to have the ‘positives’ that come with being alone.